Tag: marriage

  • Sarwat Gilani has marriage advice for youth

    Sarwat Gilani has marriage advice for youth

    Marriage can be a big decision, and actress Sarwat Gilani has a piece of practical advice for young people who are trying to figure life out.

    Recently, she appeared on the Rukhsat podcast and shared her thoughts on when to get married and what to consider.

    Sarwat said, “When it comes to your relationship, you’ve seen growing up, that familiarity will make her realize that she will agree to that marriage or that man if she has seen her mother be there for her father. I would say, please get married in your 30s, not in your 20s in your 20s, you are still very confused, especially in your late 20s because society changes. You need to understand that a lot of things are changing. First, see what values click with you.”

    The host Aghlab Shair asked, “How important is it for us to choose our own partner rather than arranged marriages, or do you think arranged marriages are fine?”

    “Look, I think it’s a bit of both, to be honest, I mean, I am in a marriage, but I believe in this day and age, marriage is a very failed institution. Because there is so much out there, there is so much variety, there is so much opportunity, and there is easy access.

    “So, it all boils down to understanding yourself. It’s a bit of an iffy situation in both. The only difference is in an arranged marriage, the chances are that because you don’t know the person, there is zero expectation, so you build on those expectations living together; you build on those boundaries living together”, Gilani added.

    Fahad Mirza and Sarwat Gilani tied the knot on 14 August 2014.

  • Nadia Afgan thinks THIS one thing is crucial for marriage

    Nadia Afgan thinks THIS one thing is crucial for marriage

    Actress Nadia Afgan gave an interview to Zabardast hosted by Wasi Shah, where she talked about an important aspect of marriage.

    “You can’t suffocate anyone; everyone has their own space, and as long as they are in that space, they will grow and flourish, and they will be happy too. If you start intruding into that space, whether it’s a personal boundary or any other, it creates discomfort. For example, in my home, I have a designated time where I spend time with my book, or I spend it in silence, or I spend it with my cup of tea. When someone interferes in that space, it bothers me. People then start to retaliate, and it turns into frustration. That’s when I’ve noticed that relationships begin to weaken. You have to give space, even to husbands and wives. I often talk about this and say, ‘Please, give each other space’,” the actress said.

    Sharing her personal example about her husband, she commented:

    “My husband Jawad really loves playing Call of Duty on PlayStation, he works the entire week. He goes to work in the morning and comes back at six in the evening. He works for PSO. Saturday is his only relaxed day. Everyone asks me, ‘Why don’t we get this kind of relaxation?’ So, on Saturdays, he has his gaming night.”

  • ‘A girl is available for marriage,’ Saman Ansari recalls her proposal announcement in mosque

    ‘A girl is available for marriage,’ Saman Ansari recalls her proposal announcement in mosque

    Renowned actress Saman Ansari discussed her marriage proposal, divorce, and how she handled it.

    She opened up about her life on Ahmad Ali Butt’s podcast and revealed that her first marriage was at a young age.

    Saman Ansari recalled, “I went to Canada from America to get higher education, and then my maternal grandparents said they were getting her married. An announcement was made in the mosque that a girl studying is available for marriage and that people interested can reach out.”

    She said that such announcements were common at the time since there was no social media and she did not have a mobile phone.

    “The first time my husband saw me was on the day we got engaged. During my marriage, because of my education and my husband’s job, I constantly moved back and forth between America and Canada,” she said.

    “I had a son but then got divorced at the time he was son six years old,” she recalled.

    After the divorce, Ansari moved to the United Arab Emirates, leaving behind her child as per divorce law, which states that the child must stay in the environment they are used to. There, she worked as a freelancer, which she claims was not an easy route to survive in Dubai.

    “I also decided not to come to Pakistan because my parents would have been subjected to taunts concerning me, as a mother, leaving behind my child and getting a divorce.

    I didn’t want to put my parents through that, so I got their permission and moved to Dubai,” she added.

  • President Zardari ratifies Christian Marriage Amendment Act, raises marriage age to 18

    President Zardari ratifies Christian Marriage Amendment Act, raises marriage age to 18

    President Asif Ali Zardari has ratified the Christian Marriage Amendment Act 2024, increasing the minimum age of marriage within the Christian community to 18 years.

    According to Dawn News, Federal Minister for Religious Affairs Chaudhry Salik and representatives of the Christian community participated in a ceremony held at the President’s House to mark the occasion.

    During the ceremony, the President welcomed members of the Christian community to the President’s House, emphasizing their equal status as Pakistanis.

    Previously, the minimum marriage age in the Christian community was 16 years for men and 13 years for women. With the amendment of the Christian Marriage Amendment Act 2024, the minimum marriage age has been uniformly set to 18 years.

    The President expressed his intention to increase quotas for minorities in government jobs, including the police force.

    He also addressed broader societal issues, stating, “Challenges exist everywhere, and we must resolve them collectively. Extremism and sectarianism have no place in our society.”

  • Sarah Khan celebrates four years of marriage with heartwarming memories

    Sarah Khan celebrates four years of marriage with heartwarming memories

    Today marks a special day for actress Sarah Khan and Falak Shabir as they celebrate their fourth wedding anniversary. Sarah has been lighting up Instagram with stunning photos, taking us all on a nostalgic trip down memory lane.

    From the excitement of wedding preparations to the intricate details of her breathtaking wedding dress, Sarah is sharing it all. She’s giving fans an inside look at the beautiful decorations and unforgettable venues that made their big day so special. And, of course, she’s posting the best pictures from their wedding events.

    Check out these gorgeous clicks and join in the celebration!

  • There are very few single people in Pakistan

    There are very few single people in Pakistan

    The detailed results of Pakistan’s seventh and first digital census have been released, providing insights into the marital status and demographics of the population.

    According to the Institute of Statistics report, 29.75 percent of people in Pakistan are single, while 65.97 percent are married. The report also notes that 3.78 percent of the population are widows.

    In addition, the statistics agency reports that 0.35 percent of the population is divorced and 0.15 percent are separated.

    Furthermore, the census reveals that 79 percent of Pakistan’s population is under 40 years of age. Specifically, 40.56 percent are under 15 years old, and the age group of 15 to 29 years constitutes 26 percent of the population.

    These findings underscore the youthful demographic profile of Pakistan, with a significant proportion of the population being unmarried and under the age of 40.

  • Marriage in Pakistan is no simple task, says actress Anam Tanveer

    Marriage in Pakistan is no simple task, says actress Anam Tanveer

    Actor Anam Tanveer recently discussed why getting married in Pakistan is harder than in other parts of the world during a podcast with FHM.

    Tanveer pointed out that in many other countries, people can marry who they love without considering religion, social status, or background. However, in Pakistan, these factors play a significant role.

    She gave examples: “In Pakistan, if a guy from DHA likes a girl from Malir, they often can’t marry because of where they live. This shouldn’t be the deciding factor.”

    She added, “If I live in North Nazimabad, a guy might think it’s a cheap and backward area and refuse to marry me. Today, people prioritize where someone lives over compatibility, education, or character. A guy from DHA usually marries a girl from the same area.”

    Tanveer also talked about her ideal partner, saying he should respect women, support his wife, and trust her career goals. She concluded by saying, “I haven’t met a single Pakistani man who respects women well.”

  • ‘We decided on divorce at the dinner table’: Hiba Ali opens up about her marriage

    ‘We decided on divorce at the dinner table’: Hiba Ali opens up about her marriage

    Divorce can be a very emotional journey filled with unexpected challenges and personal reflections.

    Recently, actress Hiba Ali appeared as a guest on ‘Fuchsia Magazine’. She talked about the emotional journey of her unplanned divorce, her struggle with depression, and the challenges of her child custody case.

    “For me, it was always unexpected. I wanted to stay with my husband because he was the father of my son, and I hoped for a relationship built on understanding,” said Hiba Ali when discussing her divorce.

    She explained that he was “a good person” but they struggled with understanding each other on basic issues.

    “He was educated, and I considered myself sensible; we couldn’t afford to argue over small things every day,” she explained.

    “We decided on divorce at a dinner table,” she revealed.

    Hiba Ali said she was “shocked” after the custody case as her former husband believed that she had distanced their son from him while he was in Canada.

    “Ultimately, it was our child’s choice whether to communicate with his father or not. We reached a compromise on the custody case outside of court because I didn’t want to give in easily. I told him he would only be wasting his money.”

    However, she feels conflicted about the decision.

    “Looking back, I wonder if marrying was a mistake or if I should not have divorced at all,” she said.

    Hiba Ali is currently starring in the drama serials ‘Shiddat’ and ‘Jaan Nisar.’

  • Life after Anzeela marriage; Javeria Abbassi discusses the need for a companion

    Life after Anzeela marriage; Javeria Abbassi discusses the need for a companion

    Popular drama actor Javeria Abbasi, who announced her second engagement earlier this year, recently shared why she decided to remarry.
    During a morning show appearance with her friend and fellow artist Shahood Alvi, Javeria said, “I was all alone after Anzela’s marriage. She was my main focus.

    “When she married, I felt lonely and realized I didn’t want to be alone forever,” she added.

    Javeria said that she talked to Shahood about it, and he encouraged her to remarry. “My mother’s passing added to my loneliness,” the actress recalled.

    When asked why she didn’t remarry earlier, Javeria explained, “I had responsibilities for my parents, daughter, and siblings, so I never thought about it.”

    She met her fiancé at a dinner with friends, and they stayed in touch. “He proposed, and though I turned him down at first, he eventually won over my family and Shahood,” she said.

    For those who don’t know, Javeria was married to actor Shamoon Abbasi for 12 years. She announced her second engagement in May this year with a video of a Paris proposal. Her daughter Anzela married Tashfeen Ansari in August last year.

  • No room for your second or third wife at Islamabad Club

    No room for your second or third wife at Islamabad Club

    In an interesting development, the Senate Standing Committee on Cabinet Divisions debated diverse topics this week, including the Cabinet Division’s luxuries, restrictions on the entry of its members’ second wives into the Islamabad Club, and Chahat Fateh Ali Khan’s charisma.

    The committee was informed that the Cabinet Division had 18 bullet-proof vehicles and six helicopters, an aviation squadron, Toshakhana gifts as well as the power to declare national public holidays.

    Saleem Mandviwala pointed out the apparent unfair rule by an Islamabad Club, which doesn’t recognise a member’s second or third wife and hence doesn’t allow them to enter the premises. The committee recognised the “significance” of the issue because Islam permits men to have four marriages.

    The members were informed about the government’s changes in the procedure for giving away civil awards.

    “For civil awards, it is evaluated now that the recipient has done more than usual work in his or her field,” the Cabinet Division special secretary told the committee. “Singers are also considered for awards based on the views of their YouTube videos,” he added.

    Reacting to this, Committee member Aamir Chishti asked the Secretary whether famous internet personality Chahat Fatteh Ali Khan’s song ‘Bado Badi’ would be considered for an award – given its number of views on YouTube.

    In a hilarious moment, Aamir Chishti then turned to the committee chair, Rana Mahmoodul Hasan and asked him if he had heard the song, to which he replied, “I have. It gave me a headache.”