Tag: marriage

  • What makes Shabana Azmi and Javed Akhtar’s 40-Year marriage so successful?

    Indian icon Shabana Azmi has revealed the secret to her successful marriage with renowned poet and lyricist Javed Akhtar. 
    “Even though we’re busy and have different schedules, we don’t meet often. But our similar backgrounds and thoughts keep us connected,” the Bollywood thespian said.

    “Our fathers were both poets and communists from Uttar Pradesh, which creates a strong bond between us,” Shabana said, adding that people always assumed their marriage was arranged due to these similarities. However, Javed believes that their limited meetings are the key to their successful marriage.

    Shabana and Javed got married in December 1984 and are nearing their 40th wedding anniversary. Before marrying Shabana, Javed was wed to Honey Irani in 1972 and had two children, Farhan Akhtar and Zoya Akhtar, before they separated in 1985. Shabana is the daughter of the famous poet and intellectual Kaifi Azmi.

  • Court orders action against nikah khawan for solemnising marriage of a minor girl

    Court orders action against nikah khawan for solemnising marriage of a minor girl

    Lahore High Court (LHC) has ordered action against a nikah khawan for solemnising the marriage of a minor girl.

    Justice Anwar-ul-Haq Pannu of LHC heard a petition filed by Humaira Bibi.

    The young girl was brought to the court from Dar-ul-Aman. According to the petitioner, the girl is 15-years-old and was forced into marriage.

    Justice Pannu asked the girl if she had married of her own free will, to which she replied in the affirmative.

    The girl also claimed that her age was around 15 or 16.

    Justice Anwar-ul-Haq ordered to file a case against the Nikah Khawan who officiated the marriage of the young girl.

    The court ordered the judicial magistrate to decide on the case.

  • Shocking number of people have ‘love marriages’ in Pakistan: Survey

    Shocking number of people have ‘love marriages’ in Pakistan: Survey

    In Pakistan, marrying a person of choice is usually looked down upon considering the shame attached to it and lack of option and privilege to interact with people.

    Which is why the result of Gallup’s new survey comes as no surprise.

    Gallup Pakistan, the well-known public opinion polling agency, has released a new survey on social attitudes, according to which only five per cent of people in Pakistan get married to people of their choice, aka love marriage.

    Whereas 85 percent of the country’s marriages are arranged.

  • Chinese factory shreds wedding photos for fuel

    Chinese factory shreds wedding photos for fuel

    At a dusty warehouse in northern China, Liu Wei feeds photos of beaming bridal couples into an industrial shredder — turning stories of heartbreak into a source of electricity.

    Wedding photos are big business in China, where parks, temples and historic sites often teem with newlyweds posing for elaborate shots capturing their supposedly unbreakable bond.

    But in a country where millions of divorces take place each year, many marital snaps end up shoved into the attic or tossed into the trash.

    Liu’s company offers an alternative: bereft ex-lovers can have their memories destroyed and recycled into fuel.

    “From our daily business exchanges, we found the destruction of personal belongings is a blank space nationwide,” the 42-year-old told AFP at his factory, 120 kilometres (75 miles) from Beijing.

    “People with less experience in the market probably wouldn’t have spotted this opportunity,” he added.

    Despite cultural taboos around destroying images of living people, Liu’s facility receives an average of five to 10 orders per day from across China.

    They include large wall photos and smaller decorative shots and albums, mostly cast from plastic, acrylic and glass.

    Workers heave the images onto a forklift truck and scatter them onto the warehouse floor for sorting.

    They then obscure every face with dark spray paint to protect client privacy and smash unshreddable glasswork with a sledgehammer.

    “These people are all trying to find closure,” said Liu. “They mainly want to unpick the knots in their hearts.”

    Complex motivations

    Sullied and broken, the pictures give glimpses of broken families in happier times.

    In one, a woman in a white bridal dress reclines on a bed of flowers, while another shows a lovestruck couple gazing into each other’s eyes.

    A sporty pair in matching kits pose with a football, while nearby, a smitten man presses his face tenderly to his pregnant wife’s belly.

    Brandishing his phone, Liu films the defaced photos and sends clips to customers for final confirmation.

    He estimates he has served about 1,100 clients — mostly under the age of 45, and around two-thirds women — since launching the service a year ago.

    They typically speak little about their separations, and several declined interview requests from AFP.

    Liu says the motivations for destroying wedding photos are often complex.

    “Few of them do this out of malice,” he told AFP.

    “It might be that this item brings on certain thoughts or feelings… or be a hurdle hard to overcome.”

    Some clients attend the destructions in person to give a sense of ceremony to a closing chapter in their lives, said Liu.

    Others keep their photos for years and only dispose of them when they remarry or finally come to terms with a former spouse’s death.

    Given the irreversible nature of the process, Liu says he gives clients a final chance to salvage their items in case they live to regret their decision.

    After getting the green light, he films his staff gently pushing the photos into the shredder’s gnashing teeth.

    The debris is taken to a nearby biofuel plant where it is processed with other household waste to generate electricity.

    ‘Respect others’ choices’

    Divorce rates soared in socially conservative China after marriage laws were relaxed in 2003.

    They have fallen dramatically since the government enacted a law in 2021 mandating a month-long “cooling-off” period before couples untie the knot.

    China registered 2.9 million divorces in 2022, down from over 4.3 million two years earlier.

    The number of marriages rose last year for the first time in nearly a decade, giving Beijing some relief as it seeks to reverse a steep fall in births.

    After annihilating the visual evidence of hundreds of unions, Liu says he has become numb to the emotions they stir up.

    “The deepest feeling I have in my heart towards my clients… is that you must respect others’ choices,” he said.

    “You must never persuade people one way or another,” he added. “It does no good.”

  • Mahira Khan wanted to avoid photoshoot with husband before marriage

    Mahira Khan wanted to avoid photoshoot with husband before marriage

    Famous actor Mahira Khan has recently talked about her beautiful wedding clothes and shared her ideas for sunset photos with her husband Salim Karim.

    Mahira Khan talked to Lollywood space where she said that when the photos were first shared last October along with news of her marriage to Salim Karim, it was unexpected. She said all those pictures were taken casually, surprising everyone.
    “I didn’t know that wedding photographers take pictures before the wedding ceremony, maybe at the studio or the wedding venue, and I was not prepared for it,” Khan remembered.
    The ‘Aik Hai Nigar’ star went on to say, “I told them I can’t take photos with Salim before we officially signed the marriage papers, because I wanted him to see me after we got married.”

    “So when I arrived, I was in one corner, he was in another, peeking through his Sehra, and I had my veil. That’s when we signed the papers. I walked towards him, and he saw me for the first time. And that’s what I wanted,” she explained. She added that when she met her now-husband, she completely forgot about the pictures they were supposed to take after the wedding ceremony. “My team and photographers rushed about because the sun was about to set.”

    “I mentioned that we stood at a nearby cliff for some last-minute photoshoot,” said Khan. “I didn’t want any fancy poses or editorials,” she added. “I wanted to enjoy my day without worrying about the pictures.”

    Mahira Khan got married to Salim Karim, who is an entrepreneur and CEO of a startup based in Pakistan. They had a small and private wedding ceremony in Bhurban in October last year.

  • Lights, Camera, Marriage: actors shocked at their ‘real’ marriages

    Lights, Camera, Marriage: actors shocked at their ‘real’ marriages

    Hey there, fellow movie buffs and drama enthusiasts! Get ready to have your minds blown because a recent revelation from a religious scholar on SAMAA TV has sent shockwaves through the entertainment world.

    Remember those glamorous on-screen weddings you’ve seen in your favorite films and dramas? Well, it turns out they might not be as pretend as we thought! According to this scholar, tying the knot on screen could mean saying “I do” in real life too.

    Yep, you heard it right! That snippet from SAMAA TV’s Sehri show last year, where the scholar dropped this bombshell, has resurfaced and gone viral faster than a gossip scandal.

    But hold onto your popcorn, because the surprises don’t end there. Not only did the scholar suggest that on-screen marriages could be legit, but they also hinted that on-screen divorces might spell the end for real-life couples. Talk about drama on and off the screen.

    Now, while we’re all for a good love story, some folks online are scratching their heads over this revelation. After all, when was the last time you saw a full-blown wedding ceremony in a movie? And how exactly does a fake “I do” translate into a real deal?

    But amidst the confusion, there’s one group of people who are having a field day with this news – single actors! They’re joyfully tallying up their on-screen spouses, with some even joking about having more marriages than they can count. “Just counted… I have got 97 nikkahs then. Where are my wives, bro?” actor Ali Abbas asked in the comments section

    Ushna Shah thought it was time to have an “awkward conversation” with her husband. Ahsan Khan responded with a surprised, “Seriously?”

    Daniyal Afzal Khan jokingly demanded someone to bring him his wives. Umer Alam Khan made a lighthearted remark, saying, “Going by this, I’ve been married thrice now. Still have room for one more. That’ll probably happen in the next drama.”

    Rapper and comedian Ali Gul Pir shared the video on his Instagram stories to make fun of the situation. He joked, “And you can get divorced by saying ‘Say pencil, your wedding’s cancelled’.”

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  • Ahsan Khan defends Sana after marriage to Shoaib Malik

    Ahsan Khan defends Sana after marriage to Shoaib Malik

    Ahsan Khan, a show host and actor, who starred in the drama ‘Sukoon’ alongside Sana Javed, has recently made comments on her marriage to Shoaib Malik. As Sana Javed’s marriage took place during the drama’s airing, many people had questions about whether Ahsan knew of her relationship with Shoaib.

    Khan was a guest on the programme, ‘Life Green Hai’, when programme host Nadia Khan questioned him whether he knew about Sana’s marriage while they were shooting together at the time.
    Ahsan Khan honestly expressed, “I am genuinely happy for her that she got married. I mean, if she wasn’t happy in her previous marriage and then decided to divorce and remarry, this should be a normal thing for us. It’s her personal choice.”
    Khan also said, “She is a good friend, and we worked together for about ten months. I wish Sana well in her marriage. Even if Sana told me something in confidence, I would not break her trust by saying anything on-air. Marriage is a good thing, so people should not be saying negative things about the new couple.”

  • Fazila Qazi talks about why marriages fail in entertainment industry

    Fazila Qazi talks about why marriages fail in entertainment industry

    Fazila Qazi and Qaiser Nizamani are a famous couple in the entertainment industry, working since more than thirty years.

    During an appearance on Life Green Hai, the hosts asked the couple why they think marriages are failing now. Fazila Qazi responded, “While there isn’t a set formula for a successful marriage, contemporary individuals, including both men and women, tend to prioritize their careers over their relationships. There is no manual for a successful marriage, but people today, both men and women, have become extremely career-oriented.” She said that in such situations, there’s often competition and clashes of egos between celebrity couples. “I myself stopped working because I wanted to spend more time with my kids, who were feeling neglected. Although Qaiser never directly told me to stop working, I made the compromise for the sake of our family.”

  • ‘My mother wants me to marry my cousin who is four years younger than me,’ Yashma Gill

    ‘My mother wants me to marry my cousin who is four years younger than me,’ Yashma Gill

    Yashma Gill, a famous actress in the showbiz industry, recently shared the qualities she looks for in a life partner.
    During a TV program, she was asked, when it comes to marriage, what qualities should your life partner have.
    In response, she said, “I want to marry someone who is a nice person, somebody who has good moral values, somebody who has good ethical values.”

    The actress emphasized the importance of her partner having fear of God, as it helps them understand how to care for others and present themselves with good manners.
    During the conversation, she also revealed, “My mother has completely different thoughts about my marriage and nowadays, she’s asking our employee for my friend’s number so she can convince my friend to marry my cousin.”
    Yashma Gill said that her mother wants her to marry her other cousin, who is four years younger than her, because he is becoming part of the modeling and showbiz industry.

  • Don’t want to be a better person for her’: Vicky Kaushal reveals details about marriage with Katrina Kaif

    Don’t want to be a better person for her’: Vicky Kaushal reveals details about marriage with Katrina Kaif

    During a recent interview, Bollywood actor Vicky Kaushal expressed a deep connection between himself and Katrina Kaif.
    He said that his marriage to Katrina is a result of a profound connection; she understands his heart, and he cherishes hers. They are just like any other couple.

    He also said that he doesn’t want to become a better person for her or vice versa. “We love each other for who we are at the moment, and our newness lies in how we blossom together.”
    In response to a question about Katrina Kaif’s eating habits, Vicky said, “Katrina eats more greens than me. She likes special foods like chole bhature, but I find her unique tastes are charming to some extent.”